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Instructions

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     Identify the major problems in your relationship. Some relationships turn sour due to a specific action, such as the break in trust that comes with cheating. Others simply drift apart due to lack of communication. Before you can start to fix your relationship with your girlfriend, you need to determine where things are going wrong.
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     Open the lines of communication. Let your girlfriend know that you want to work things out and you are willing to talk about your problems. Take the first step and share your feelings about the relationship and where you hope it can go. Let her know that you want her to do the same. Listen to her. Remember one of the most important parts of communication is listening.
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     Eliminate negative speech patterns. Couples often use language that comes off as accusatory. Get rid of the blame. Instead, focus on sharing your feelings. Instead of complaining that "she's never around," tell her that you "feel lonely" when you don't get to see her often.
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     Recognize your emotional vulnerability. Most people have a need to feel loved and wanted. You don't need to feel ashamed about this.
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     Fix yourself to fix your relationship. It's easy to place blame on the other person in the relationship. Stop thinking about the ways that she should change to make the relationship better and start thinking about the ways that you can change. For example, you can start making more time for her, volunteer to do the dishes or help with other household chores; take an interest in her hobbies. These little things can make a big difference.